When a woman has been wounded in her soul, sometimes hurt and pain are not the only things that result. Sometimes, depending on the type of wound, she can end up in shame—ashamed of what has happened to her and even ashamed of who she is. She may think what happened to her is her fault or took place because of something flawed in her.

Shame makes a person feel dirty, unattractive, awkward, devalued, and unlovable. Often shame causes us to feel we are unworthy of having hopes and dreams, and it causes us to lose confidence doing things we would otherwise feel strong and comfortable about doing. It can poison our thoughts, feelings, and decisions to the point that we become withdrawn and hopeless. If I had to summarize briefly what shame does, I would say that it makes us feel like something is wrong with us, though we may not be able to pinpoint exactly what it is.

The things that wound our souls can leave a complicated set of consequences in our lives, and shame is often added to them. Especially in situations of sexual abuse, shame is only one of many results of being violated. I know this from personal experience, and I also know that it is possible to break free from shame completely. It is so important that we learn to do this, because if we don’t, we will not be able to fully enjoy the life Jesus died to give us.

Our own thoughts and feelings can easily keep us trapped in shame, but God’s Word sets us free. Jesus promises in John 8:32 that we will know the truth and the truth will make us free. This means we can be free from everything that holds us captive, including shame.

I want to remind you of two more of God’s promises today as a way of encouraging you to be confident that you do not have to live in shame any longer. God says through Isaiah, Fear not, for you will not be ashamed; be not confounded, for you will not be disgraced; for you will forget the shame of your youth… (Isaiah 54:4 ESV). In case you’re wondering, the word confounded means ashamed, defeated, confused, or overthrown. It also means damned or doomed to punishment. That’s not a good way to feel, but when we are ashamed of who we are, we can easily feel doomed and defeated. God does not want us to feel that way! And in the short Book of Zephaniah, He says, Behold, at that time I will deal with all your oppressors. And I will save the lame and gather the outcast, and I will change their shame into praise and renown in all the earth (3:19 ESV).

God wants you to live a shame-free life, full of faith, confidence, peace, and joy. Stay in His Word and fill your mind with God’s promises, and He will help you leave your shame behind you.

Prayer of the Day: Lord, thank You for Your truth that sets me free. Heal every place of shame in my heart and help me walk boldly in the confidence of Your love, amen.

Credit:Joyce Meyer Ministries